June 10, 2010
June 9, 2010
ladies, good guys do exist
Not all men are dogs, players or whatever else you call them. Majority? Yes, of course but there are some good men out there. Men that know how to treat a woman right and that can take care of her. Please don’t say that you seem to only attract the bad ones or that you can’t find a good one because I’m positive that’s not true. You say this because most the time the bad apples are the ones that are bold enough to approach you. They’re also the ones that aren’t afraid to play you.
Ladies, you don’t seem to notice the guy that is staring at you from across the room. Maybe he’s only staring and not making a move because thinks he’s not good enough for you or that you may not be into him just by the way you’re interacting with the people around you. You also don’t seem to notice the guy that comes up to you and introduces himself without the weak pick-up line. Apparently, if he doesn’t come all hard at you he isn’t worth it…oh please.
A man shouldn’t need to compliment you to have a conversation with you and if you think that, then maybe that’s why you’ve only seen the players in your life. I never turn down a man calling me pretty and what not, but the fact that he made his way over to talk to should speak for itself. He obviously finds you attractive if he took the time to talk to you.
Why are females so attracted to the man that 'pissssts' at them? I find that to be so disrespectful…I’m not cat, dog or any kind of animal…address me with some frickin’ class. Why do females feel so compelled to talk to the guy that grabs their arm when they’re walking by? Do I know you? No, so why in the hell are you touching me? Touching me is very unnecessary. Why must females talk to the guy with the played out, weak pick-up line or the one that calls them sexy. Wait for the one who has enough confidence to approach you and just introduce himself to spark a conversation. Wait for the one that calls you beautiful…trust me, it sounds a lot better. The more females that condone this classless behavior from men, the more they are going to think it’s okay to do because they are getting a response. If you stop responding to it, they’ll realize the lack of response and stop doing it.
So next time take a second look at the guy that holds the door for you, the one that actually says excuse me while trying to get by or the one who says sorry for brushing you/bumping into you by accident. Give the one who doesn’t look at you like you’re a piece of meat or doesn’t use some pick-up line a chance. He’ll be the one that treats you with respect, the one who calls you beautiful, the one that calls you back when he says he will and the one that genuinely wants to get to know you.
Ladies, you don’t seem to notice the guy that is staring at you from across the room. Maybe he’s only staring and not making a move because thinks he’s not good enough for you or that you may not be into him just by the way you’re interacting with the people around you. You also don’t seem to notice the guy that comes up to you and introduces himself without the weak pick-up line. Apparently, if he doesn’t come all hard at you he isn’t worth it…oh please.
A man shouldn’t need to compliment you to have a conversation with you and if you think that, then maybe that’s why you’ve only seen the players in your life. I never turn down a man calling me pretty and what not, but the fact that he made his way over to talk to should speak for itself. He obviously finds you attractive if he took the time to talk to you.
Why are females so attracted to the man that 'pissssts' at them? I find that to be so disrespectful…I’m not cat, dog or any kind of animal…address me with some frickin’ class. Why do females feel so compelled to talk to the guy that grabs their arm when they’re walking by? Do I know you? No, so why in the hell are you touching me? Touching me is very unnecessary. Why must females talk to the guy with the played out, weak pick-up line or the one that calls them sexy. Wait for the one who has enough confidence to approach you and just introduce himself to spark a conversation. Wait for the one that calls you beautiful…trust me, it sounds a lot better. The more females that condone this classless behavior from men, the more they are going to think it’s okay to do because they are getting a response. If you stop responding to it, they’ll realize the lack of response and stop doing it.
So next time take a second look at the guy that holds the door for you, the one that actually says excuse me while trying to get by or the one who says sorry for brushing you/bumping into you by accident. Give the one who doesn’t look at you like you’re a piece of meat or doesn’t use some pick-up line a chance. He’ll be the one that treats you with respect, the one who calls you beautiful, the one that calls you back when he says he will and the one that genuinely wants to get to know you.
June 6, 2010
back to basics
I took a long break from Blogger. I got busy and couldn't update. Then at one point I decided to delete all the posts. A little while after that I found out about Tumblr. It was good while it lasted but, I'm starting to pull away from that site slowly and I know in due time I'll delete it. So now, I'm starting from scratch. Back to real blogging.
I felt as if I didn't have my own voice on Tumblr. Everyone judges on there and if they don't agree with your point-of-view they feel the need to jump down your throat. It's horrible. I did meet some cool people on there and I made sure I have some sort of contact with them even if it's just twitter. They don't treat it like a blogging site at all.
I want to be able to sit down with the computer and type exactly what I feel without people judging me or anything of that sort. I feel like I can do that here. I want to be able to write about my views on a certain subject and for people to know that I'm not trying to offend anyone. I will never offend anyone purposely. I try to word things properly and if I can't find the right words I just leave it out.
Well, those are my welcome words. Stay tuned and thanks to all that still continued to follow me.
Lots of love...xoxo!
I felt as if I didn't have my own voice on Tumblr. Everyone judges on there and if they don't agree with your point-of-view they feel the need to jump down your throat. It's horrible. I did meet some cool people on there and I made sure I have some sort of contact with them even if it's just twitter. They don't treat it like a blogging site at all.
I want to be able to sit down with the computer and type exactly what I feel without people judging me or anything of that sort. I feel like I can do that here. I want to be able to write about my views on a certain subject and for people to know that I'm not trying to offend anyone. I will never offend anyone purposely. I try to word things properly and if I can't find the right words I just leave it out.
Well, those are my welcome words. Stay tuned and thanks to all that still continued to follow me.
Lots of love...xoxo!
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